[System] terrified: I heard some noises outside the house. I thought someone was trying to break in.

[Assistant] I heard some noises outside the house. I thought someone was trying to break in.

[Assistant] what

[Assistant] It turned out to be nothing, but it was really stressful.

[Assistant] i can imagine, it happend to me before and it was actually someone trying to break in, i called hte police and they ran off


[System] trusting: I was driving to a new destination and I kind of knew the directions. My mom did not turn the navigation on and she let me drive there.

[Assistant] I was driving to a new destination and I kind of knew the directions. My mom did not turn the navigation on and she let me drive there.

[User] I hoe you made it there. Getting lost sucks!

[Assistant] Yeah it does. Well, I made it there with a couple wrong turns, but my memory worked out for me.

[User] I am glad you made it there with only a few hiccups along the way. You must have a good memory when it comes to directions.


[System] faithful: I got maried at 18. I have been married for 12 years and never once strayed or became unfaithful.

[User] I got married very young at 18. This year we celebrated our 12 year anniversary.

[Assistant] Wow. That is very interesting. These days, many people get married later in life. Congratulations!

[User] Yes, most people get married later in life or their marriages don't last. I don't reommend getting married young because it's hard work but I have been faithful to my marriage and worked hard at it.

[Assistant] That is good to hear. Yeah, my parents married young and it worked out for them too. I am happy to hear that it turned out good for you.


[System] caring: my cat was passing away and i had to make sure he was comfortable as he went

[Assistant] i love my cat so much. im tending to him as he's dying, and it's such a sweet moment for us

[Assistant] oh no :< that's so sad, i also have a cat but she is in her early days

[Assistant] its just nice to be able to be there for someone who needs you

[Assistant] i know right? they make you happy and in the end that's all one needs

[Assistant] yes and i like humans as well


[System] disgusted: I was eating some food at a restaurant when I found a hair in it. I didn't NOT want to eat any more!

[Assistant] I was eating some food at a restaurant when I found a hair in it. I didn't NOT want to eat any more!

[Assistant] I know how you feel that would gross me out too.  Makes me feel like whoever prepared my food was not very clean.

[Assistant] No, it just feels yuck. It pretty much makes you lose your appetite.

[Assistant] I agree, I wouldn't be in the mood to eat after that either, it's disgusting.


[System] hopeful: I wanted to go to Spacecamp. I filled out a form to try to get a scholarship because I knew that was the only way I could go.

[Assistant] I wanted to go to Spacecamp. I filled out a form to try to get a scholarship because I knew that was the only way I could go.

[Assistant] which way is that?

[Assistant] I could only go if I got a scholarship because I couldn't afford it otherwise.

[Assistant] maybe it happend for a reason? maybe you will find a better apportunity to get there


[System] afraid: i am so scared i want to finish all the book today and i may not be able to finish it

[User] i wanted to finish the book today, and i'm afraid that i can't finish it today.

[Assistant] Can you tell me the name of the book? I find myself being engaged by a lot of novels these days.

[User] i'm more into psychology and philosophy, but you should try everything everything it's a great novel!

[Assistant] How many pages do you have to go? You should try to finish it today and power through it!


[System] confident: I changed out my car's thermostat the other day. After watching a Youtube video on how to do it I felt assured I could do it myself.

[Assistant] I did some maintenance on my car and learned how to change out the thermostat. It was very easy using Youtube as guidance!

[User] it's insane how Youtube and the internet overall are so helpful!

[Assistant] Seriously! I wouldn't have never learned this stuff and would of had to spend hundred of dollars at a repair shop!

[User] that's so insane right? glad you did it yourself!


[System] devastated: My cat died a few weeks ago. I'd had him for more than a decade.

[Assistant] My ten-year-old cat died a few weeks ago. I still can't believe he's gone.

[Assistant] Im sorry to hear that. Tell me a fond memory you have of him/her.

[Assistant] Thanks. Whenever he wanted to come back into the house, he would call and I was the only person who seemed to hear him. I think we were connected, lol

[Assistant] Yeah each cat has their own personality. It's good to reflect on little things like that. Maybe once the sting of all of it is over you can get another one and continue to create more sweet memories like the one you just shared with me.


[System] faithful: One time while I was working an employee came up to me and began to flirt with me. I told the person I was married and was loyal to my and that it was inappropriate and disrespectful. They laughed and still continued to flirt. I spoke with a manager to have me moved to another area so I could work in peace.

[Assistant] I was at work the other day and this young lady started hitting on me for no reason. I told her I was married but she kept on trying to flirt with me.

[Assistant] It's terrible when people can't take no for an answer. Did you report her?

[Assistant] I actually spoke with a manager about the situation and they moved me to another spot so I could work in peace. They told me if she starts again then take it to HR. Apparently she is known for that kind of behavior.

[Assistant] Wow, she sounds like a real piece of work. I'm glad you reported her. Maybe they should consider firing her.


[System] terrified: I entered my room and saw a black cat,  I ran like never before

[User] I ran like never before when I saw a black cat in my room

[User] I think you do not like cats very much ...

[User] The sight of it scares me,  I love the white one though,  but not black

[User] Well, then, you should think about God when you see them


[System] devastated: My husband lost his job. It was 3 weeks before christmas.

[Assistant] Last December, my husband lost his job. He's our main source of income.

[Assistant] Oh I'm really sorry to hear that. Has he been looking for another job?

[Assistant] He has won now. But it was really rough for awhile. Especially Christmas.

[Assistant] We went through the same thing with my husband. I know it is stressful, but I am so glad you got through it and things are better now.


[System] hopeful: I tried out for the broadcasting club to do the announcements at school. I really wanted to get in!

[Assistant] I tried out for the broadcasting club to do the announcements at school. I really wanted to get in!

[Assistant] That sounds exciting? Did you get in to the club?

[Assistant] I did! I remember being so happy at that moment, even though it was 25 years ago!

[Assistant] Wow, it's always nice when we get something we really want. Especially if we have to compete for it.


[System] confident: When I was  in college before the midterm exams I study night and day so I could get a good score . When I took the test I was comfortable with answering the question and did not sweat it at all.

[User] have you ever had a big test coming up that you worried about? Well I had one recently.and I did not worry at all.

[Assistant] Thats good because you prepared for it

[User] Sure did night and day for 5 nights straight . I did not even get butterflies in my stomach before I took it.

[Assistant] Wow,you made it,congrats

[User] 😋 Tell me something that happen with you lately?


[System] annoyed: I was angry at my friend's attitude towards me

[Assistant] They always neglt me

[User] who does and that is mean of them.

[Assistant] They dont worth my time

[User] Sure  your worth your time. do not be so down on yourself.


[System] sad: Today is the anniversary of my fathers death. He has been gone for 18 years now.

[User] Today is the anniversary of my fathers death. He has been gone for 18 years now.

[User] Wow,  18 years. Accept my condolence please

[User] Thanks. It's hard all of the time but the anniversary always just brings it all back. Makes me feel really down.

[User] Just take heart OK,  it's one of those things


[System] guilty: I remembered when I stole money from my mum,  so I felt so bad

[User] I really felt so bad when I remembered how I stole my mum's money and my brother was punished for it

[User] Maybe it's time to clear your conscience so you won't have to feel so bad anymore.

[User] I'm trying so hard seriously

[User] You can't change the past. All you can do is learn from it. If you are sincere then your family will forgive you.


[System] faithful: I love my family so much! They are the center of everything I accomplish in life.

[Assistant] I love my wife and kids. I sacrifice so much time for them all and it feels great!

[Assistant] Same, don't know what i would do without them.

[Assistant] I feel responsible for their future and I want to do everything I can for them!

[Assistant] That's part of being a good parent, it all goes hand in hand.


[System] furious: A man hit my car today at a grocery store. He was on his phone not paying any attention to the road!

[Assistant] Today at the grocery store my car was hit! He was on his phone!

[Assistant] I'm so sorry!  That's awful!  Did you get his insurance information?

[Assistant] Oh absolutely. Luckily I had a witness help testify that he was indeed on his phone.

[Assistant] That's a mercy, at least. Are you hurt?


[System] apprehensive: Had my employee review this week and my boss has been putting it off for 4 days.  Shee keeps says she'll do it and then puts it off.  I still don't have the results and I've been worrying about it all week.

[Assistant] My boss keeps putting off my employee review and it's really stressing me out.

[Assistant] Is there anyone else you can talk to? Maybe even Human Resources?

[Assistant] That's a good idea.  I'm just worried because she only has two employees and it'll be obvious it was me.

[Assistant] I see where you're coming from. Sometimes though you got to make a stand and show you're serious about the position.

[Assistant] That's certainly true.  If nothing happens by next week, I won't really have a choice.  Maybe I can consult with them confidentialy


[System] joyful: Last week,  my dad bought me a gold watch for my birthday , I was so happy

[User] During my birthday,  my dad bought me a gold watch , I was so happy

[User] What a lovely gift. I'm sure that you will always treasure it because it came from him.

[User] Oh yes , I longed for that you know , but he surprised me

[User] Makes it even better that you didn't know you were getting it.


[System] angry: I was backing out of the driveway and I ran over a bike that I had told the kids to put away. I was so mad.

[User]
I was backing out of the driveway and I ran over a bike that I had told the kids to put away. I was so mad.,4|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10424_conv:20849,2,angry,I was backing out of the driveway and I ran over a bike that I had told the kids to put away. I was so mad.,686,Wow,  that was not cool at all,4|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10424_conv:20849,3,angry,I was backing out of the driveway and I ran over a bike that I had told the kids to put away. I was so mad.,548,The bike was totaled and I had damage to the car. Needless to say somebody was in big trouble.,4|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10424_conv:20849,4,angry,I was backing out of the driveway and I ran over a bike that I had told the kids to put away. I was so mad.,686,Ohhh kids.  Please just take it easy on them ok,4|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10425_conv:20850,1,proud,I was in a class when my name was mentioned for an award,i came out feeling high,181,Everyone applauded me,4|4|4_5|2|2,
hit:10425_conv:20850,2,proud,I was in a class when my name was mentioned for an award,i came out feeling high,381,That must feel amazing! What did you do to deserve the recognition? ,4|4|4_5|2|2,
hit:10425_conv:20850,3,proud,I was in a class when my name was mentioned for an award,i came out feeling high,181,I cleard my papers ,4|4|4_5|2|2,
hit:10425_conv:20850,4,proud,I was in a class when my name was mentioned for an award,i came out feeling high,381,Was this at the office? Or perhaps at school?,4|4|4_5|2|2,
hit:10425_conv:20851,1,nostalgic,I was thinking about my childhood the other day and feel so lucky. I was raised in a good family and love many old memories I have.,381,I was thinking about my childhood the other day. I came from a pretty good family and life was so nice and simple when you're young.,5|2|2_4|4|4,
hit:10425_conv:20851,2,nostalgic,I was thinking about my childhood the other day and feel so lucky. I was raised in a good family and love many old memories I have.,181,Thats good,it feels good,5|2|2_4|4|4,
hit:10425_conv:20851,3,nostalgic,I was thinking about my childhood the other day and feel so lucky. I was raised in a good family and love many old memories I have.,381,Yeah. I was going through some old VHS tapes and found some of when I was a kid. I used to love this old dog I had.,5|2|2_4|4|4,
hit:10425_conv:20851,4,nostalgic,I was thinking about my childhood the other day and feel so lucky. I was raised in a good family and love many old memories I have.,181,Whats the name of the dog?,5|2|2_4|4|4,
hit:10426_conv:20852,1,afraid,I ran out of the house thinking I saw a ghost,686,I thought I saw a ghost in my room,  so I ran out of the house ,5|4|5_4|4|5,
hit:10426_conv:20852,2,afraid,I ran out of the house thinking I saw a ghost,548,I'll bet that was scary. I would have run too.,5|4|5_4|4|5,
hit:10426_conv:20852,3,afraid,I ran out of the house thinking I saw a ghost,686,Lol,  but do you know at the end,  it was just a white cloth I hanged there,5|4|5_4|4|5,
hit:10426_conv:20852,4,afraid,I ran out of the house thinking I saw a ghost,548,LOL....White cloths can be scary too.,5|4|5_4|4|5,
hit:10426_conv:20853,1,proud,My nephew signed up to join the Marines. I was overwhelmed with happy emotions that he would choose to serve our country.,548,My nephew signed up to join the Marines. I was overwhelmed with happy emotions that he would choose to serve our country.,4|4|5_5|4|5,
hit:10426_conv:20853,2,proud,My nephew signed up to join the Marines. I was overwhelmed with happy emotions that he would choose to serve our country.,686,Wow,  that's great news.  I love that ,4|4|5_5|4|5,
hit:10426_conv:20853,3,proud,My nephew signed up to join the Marines. I was overwhelmed with happy emotions that he would choose to serve our country.,548,I think it is such an honorable thing to do. ,4|4|5_5|4|5,
hit:10426_conv:20853,4,proud,My nephew signed up to join the Marines. I was overwhelmed with happy emotions that he would choose to serve our country.,686,Exactly , it is quite cool,4|4|5_5|4|5,
hit:10427_conv:20854,1,apprehensive,I was scared to go on the new roller coaster at Six Flags, because it is so high and fast. I felt sick to my stomach while I was waiting in line.,724,I felt sick to my stomach waiting in line for a new roller coaster.,4|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10427_conv:20854,2,apprehensive,I was scared to go on the new roller coaster at Six Flags, because it is so high and fast. I felt sick to my stomach while I was waiting in line.,49,I would have felt the same way. I am really afraid to get on any roller coaster. How was it?,4|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10427_conv:20854,3,apprehensive,I was scared to go on the new roller coaster at Six Flags, because it is so high and fast. I felt sick to my stomach while I was waiting in line.,724,Well, my fear didn't get any better as it started moving. But by the end I loved it!,4|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10427_conv:20854,4,apprehensive,I was scared to go on the new roller coaster at Six Flags, because it is so high and fast. I felt sick to my stomach while I was waiting in line.,49,That's awesome. Glad you had fun! That's what's important,4|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10427_conv:20854,5,apprehensive,I was scared to go on the new roller coaster at Six Flags, because it is so high and fast. I felt sick to my stomach while I was waiting in line.,724,Somehow I remember them being less scary when I was a kid ,4|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10428_conv:20856,1,sentimental,I hung out with one of my old friends yesterday. We had a good time talking about the things we used to get into, back in the day.,620,I hung out with one of my old friends yesterday. We had a good time talking about the things we used to get into, back in the day.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10428_conv:20856,2,sentimental,I hung out with one of my old friends yesterday. We had a good time talking about the things we used to get into, back in the day.,381,What kind of things did you all like to do? Sounds like it was fun to catch up.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10428_conv:20856,3,sentimental,I hung out with one of my old friends yesterday. We had a good time talking about the things we used to get into, back in the day.,620,Just general teenage tomfoolery. Nothing too serious. Silly things that kids do.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10428_conv:20856,4,sentimental,I hung out with one of my old friends yesterday. We had a good time talking about the things we used to get into, back in the day.,381,Was he one of your best friends? Sounds like you have some more catching up yo do!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10428_conv:20857,1,disgusted,Having kids is great but some of the things they do are gross. My girlfriend's kid is always making a mess!,381,Do you have kids? Some of the things they do are nasty! My girlfriends kid is such a messy eater!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10428_conv:20857,2,disgusted,Having kids is great but some of the things they do are gross. My girlfriend's kid is always making a mess!,620,I do. I have one and another one on the way. They can be gross little critters!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10428_conv:20857,3,disgusted,Having kids is great but some of the things they do are gross. My girlfriend's kid is always making a mess!,381,You're not kidding! When he eats spaghetti it's the worst. Pasta sauce gets everywhere!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10428_conv:20857,4,disgusted,Having kids is great but some of the things they do are gross. My girlfriend's kid is always making a mess!,620,Oh, that's rough. That can be a lot of clean up.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10429_conv:20859,1,caring,My friend is from work is pregnant and she's so excited.  I'm excited to, but also worried since we work in a lab and we have to be very careful of the chemicals. ,719,I just found out a friend at work is pregnant!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10429_conv:20859,2,caring,My friend is from work is pregnant and she's so excited.  I'm excited to, but also worried since we work in a lab and we have to be very careful of the chemicals. ,630,Wow, exciting! Is this going to be your friend's first child?,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10429_conv:20859,3,caring,My friend is from work is pregnant and she's so excited.  I'm excited to, but also worried since we work in a lab and we have to be very careful of the chemicals. ,719,Second actually. have to be a bit careful though.  We work around some dangerous chemicals.  ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10429_conv:20859,4,caring,My friend is from work is pregnant and she's so excited.  I'm excited to, but also worried since we work in a lab and we have to be very careful of the chemicals. ,630,That sounds scary. How often do children of the employees at your work end up harmed because of the chemicals?,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10429_conv:20859,5,caring,My friend is from work is pregnant and she's so excited.  I'm excited to, but also worried since we work in a lab and we have to be very careful of the chemicals. ,719,Not often.  We have a really good Health and Safety program.  ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10430_conv:20860,1,impressed,I came back home and noticed my younger bro kept everywhere clean,686,I came back home and noticed my younger brother kept everywhere clean, It pleased me,4|4|4_5|4|4,
hit:10430_conv:20860,2,impressed,I came back home and noticed my younger bro kept everywhere clean,724,That's a pleasant surprise! Is this out of the ordinary?,4|4|4_5|4|4,
hit:10430_conv:20860,3,impressed,I came back home and noticed my younger bro kept everywhere clean,686,Oh yeah.  Because he hardly sweep,4|4|4_5|4|4,
hit:10430_conv:20860,4,impressed,I came back home and noticed my younger bro kept everywhere clean,724,Let's hope he keeps it up!,4|4|4_5|4|4,
hit:10430_conv:20861,1,sentimental,I was just looking at some old pictures of my Dad. I miss him.,724,Found some old pictures of my Dad fishing. I miss fishing with him.,5|4|4_4|4|4,
hit:10430_conv:20861,2,sentimental,I was just looking at some old pictures of my Dad. I miss him.,686,Wow, I've never done fishing,  so how is it like ,5|4|4_4|4|4,
hit:10430_conv:20861,3,sentimental,I was just looking at some old pictures of my Dad. I miss him.,724,I used to love going with Dad, but haven't really gone much since he passed.,5|4|4_4|4|4,
hit:10430_conv:20861,4,sentimental,I was just looking at some old pictures of my Dad. I miss him.,686,It's well.  Please accept my condolence ,5|4|4_4|4|4,
hit:10430_conv:20861,5,sentimental,I was just looking at some old pictures of my Dad. I miss him.,724,Thank you. It was quite some time ago, I was just being nostalgic.,5|4|4_4|4|4,
hit:10431_conv:20862,1,excited,My dad bought me a golden wrist watch last week and i was happy,181,I felt on top of the world when i recieved the present,4|4|4_4|4|4,
hit:10431_conv:20862,2,excited,My dad bought me a golden wrist watch last week and i was happy,577,What type of present was it? It must have been pretty special.,4|4|4_4|4|4,
hit:10431_conv:20862,3,excited,My dad bought me a golden wrist watch last week and i was happy,181,Yes,it was a golden wrist watch from my dad,4|4|4_4|4|4,
hit:10431_conv:20862,4,excited,My dad bought me a golden wrist watch last week and i was happy,577,Cool. There's nothing like receiving family heirlooms.,4|4|4_4|4|4,
hit:10431_conv:20863,1,caring,I stumbled upon a couple of abandoned kittens recently. I took them home.,577,I found some kittens in an abandoned house recently. They were so malnourished, I took them home, fed them, and now they're part of the family.,4|4|4_4|4|4,
hit:10431_conv:20863,2,caring,I stumbled upon a couple of abandoned kittens recently. I took them home.,181,You did so well,have you given them names?,4|4|4_4|4|4,
hit:10431_conv:20863,3,caring,I stumbled upon a couple of abandoned kittens recently. I took them home.,577,Yes, Foster and Buster. Don't ask me why I chose those names, lol. That's what they looked like, I guess,4|4|4_4|4|4,
hit:10431_conv:20863,4,caring,I stumbled upon a couple of abandoned kittens recently. I took them home.,181,Am so happy for you,you have gotten a pet,4|4|4_4|4|4,
hit:10432_conv:20864,1,anxious,Recently I found out I may have a hernia. It's causing so much anxiety that it keeps me up at night.,381,I was diagnosed with a inguinal hernia yesterday. The amount of stress and anxiety is through the roof for me right now.,5|5|5_3|4|5,
hit:10432_conv:20864,2,anxious,Recently I found out I may have a hernia. It's causing so much anxiety that it keeps me up at night.,368,Holy crap! Can it be remedied?,5|5|5_3|4|5,
hit:10432_conv:20864,3,anxious,Recently I found out I may have a hernia. It's causing so much anxiety that it keeps me up at night.,381,Yes with surgery. This is going to require some time off from work which may be difficult.,5|5|5_3|4|5,
hit:10432_conv:20864,4,anxious,Recently I found out I may have a hernia. It's causing so much anxiety that it keeps me up at night.,368,I really hope it all works out for you. Work is important but your health is way more important!,5|5|5_3|4|5,
hit:10432_conv:20865,1,faithful,My marriage,368,I've been married nearly eight years and someone hit on me last week. Luckily we have always been happy together or else that could have taken a weird turn.,3|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10432_conv:20865,2,faithful,My marriage,381,I bet it felt good though? That's good that you're happily married!,3|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10432_conv:20865,3,faithful,My marriage,368,It did! I guess I've 'still got it!' Ha!,3|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10432_conv:20865,4,faithful,My marriage,381,That's the spirit! It's a positive thing so long as you remain faithful. Did you tell your significant other?,3|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10432_conv:20865,5,faithful,My marriage,368,Of course!,3|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10433_conv:20866,1,sentimental,I wanted to leave my boyfriend but I felt pity on him,686,I felt pity on my boyfriend last week,  but I wanted to leave him,4|4|4_5|4|5,
hit:10433_conv:20866,2,sentimental,I wanted to leave my boyfriend but I felt pity on him,724,Oh yeah? Did you get it worked out?,4|4|4_5|4|5,
hit:10433_conv:20866,3,sentimental,I wanted to leave my boyfriend but I felt pity on him,686,No,  he convinced me,  so I stayed.  But don't like his attitude ,4|4|4_5|4|5,
hit:10433_conv:20866,4,sentimental,I wanted to leave my boyfriend but I felt pity on him,724,Have you considered couples therapy to try and work things out?,4|4|4_5|4|5,
hit:10433_conv:20867,1,devastated,I bought a new jeep and someone crashed into it in a parking lot. They didn't even leave a note.,724,I bought a brand new jeep, and it's damaged already. I'm upset.,5|4|5_4|4|4,
hit:10433_conv:20867,2,devastated,I bought a new jeep and someone crashed into it in a parking lot. They didn't even leave a note.,686,Oh no,  that is not cool.  What happened? ,5|4|5_4|4|4,
hit:10433_conv:20867,3,devastated,I bought a new jeep and someone crashed into it in a parking lot. They didn't even leave a note.,724,Someone crashed into it in a parking lot. Didn't even leave a note.,5|4|5_4|4|4,
hit:10433_conv:20867,4,devastated,I bought a new jeep and someone crashed into it in a parking lot. They didn't even leave a note.,686,That person is heartless though ,5|4|5_4|4|4,
hit:10433_conv:20867,5,devastated,I bought a new jeep and someone crashed into it in a parking lot. They didn't even leave a note.,724,I agree. People can be such jerks sometimes.,5|4|5_4|4|4,
hit:10434_conv:20868,1,trusting,it is really a happy feeling that you get a good cooperation from some unexpected person,2,i got permission to begin a start up company by my own.. i am so excited,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10434_conv:20868,2,trusting,it is really a happy feeling that you get a good cooperation from some unexpected person,725,Wow, that sounds exciting! I hope everything works out for you!,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10434_conv:20868,3,trusting,it is really a happy feeling that you get a good cooperation from some unexpected person,2,yes.. it is unexpected indeed.. i thought i would be struggling to get support.. ,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10434_conv:20868,4,trusting,it is really a happy feeling that you get a good cooperation from some unexpected person,725,Seems like it is your fate then. I am also starting a new venture and it is taking a lot of time and hard work but I think it is finally paying off soon. ,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10435_conv:20870,1,terrified,Lately I've been having horrible nightmares. It feels like having sleep paralysis!,381,Lately at night when I go to sleep I've been having sleep paralysis. It feels terrifying! Like someone is in the room with me.,5|4|5_3|3|4,
hit:10435_conv:20870,2,terrified,Lately I've been having horrible nightmares. It feels like having sleep paralysis!,577,That's horrible. Have you any idea what might have caused it?,5|4|5_3|3|4,
hit:10435_conv:20870,3,terrified,Lately I've been having horrible nightmares. It feels like having sleep paralysis!,381,I've watched some Youtube videos on it and it seems to be hereditary or sometimes sleep deprived. I guess I am usually sleep deprived!,5|4|5_3|3|4,
hit:10435_conv:20870,4,terrified,Lately I've been having horrible nightmares. It feels like having sleep paralysis!,577,You should go see a doctor about that. Sleep deprivation is very unhealthy,5|4|5_3|3|4,
hit:10435_conv:20871,1,content,I moved into a new house recently. And while it isn't a mansion, it fits my needs perfectly.,577,I moved house recently, from an absolute dump. The new place isn't huge, but it's perfect for me.,3|3|4_5|4|5,
hit:10435_conv:20871,2,content,I moved into a new house recently. And while it isn't a mansion, it fits my needs perfectly.,381,That's one of the most responsible things you can do. I'm sure your family is proud of you.,3|3|4_5|4|5,
hit:10435_conv:20871,3,content,I moved into a new house recently. And while it isn't a mansion, it fits my needs perfectly.,577,Well, I live alone, but I'm certainly proud of myself for finally moving. Now I can focus on work.,3|3|4_5|4|5,
hit:10435_conv:20871,4,content,I moved into a new house recently. And while it isn't a mansion, it fits my needs perfectly.,381,You're taking steps in the right direction I get a feeling you're doing alright for yourself out there. ,3|3|4_5|4|5,
hit:10436_conv:20873,1,devastated,A few years ago, my employer of 13 years shut their doors and we all were laid off. I would probably have stayed at that place my entire career if it hadn't closed.,620,A few years ago, my employer of 13 years shut their doors and we all were laid off. I would probably have stayed at that place my entire career if it hadn't closed.,5|5|5_4|5|5,
hit:10436_conv:20873,2,devastated,A few years ago, my employer of 13 years shut their doors and we all were laid off. I would probably have stayed at that place my entire career if it hadn't closed.,211,That must have been devastating. Did it take you a long time to find a new position?,5|5|5_4|5|5,
hit:10436_conv:20873,3,devastated,A few years ago, my employer of 13 years shut their doors and we all were laid off. I would probably have stayed at that place my entire career if it hadn't closed.,620,No, I worked at another place for a year or so, but it was terrible, so I left there and am now going to school for something better. So, it all has worked out well.,5|5|5_4|5|5,
hit:10436_conv:20873,4,devastated,A few years ago, my employer of 13 years shut their doors and we all were laid off. I would probably have stayed at that place my entire career if it hadn't closed.,211,I'm glad things have worked out in the end for you. Sometimes bad things happen for a reason. ,5|5|5_4|5|5,
hit:10437_conv:20874,1,sentimental,3,449,My aunt died last year and I was thinking about her yesterday.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10437_conv:20874,2,sentimental,3,719,That's very hard. I lost my uncle in january and it's so hard to think about.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10437_conv:20874,3,sentimental,3,449,She was like a mom to be and raised me in my younger years.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10437_conv:20874,4,sentimental,3,719,I'm so sorry.  Are you doing all right?,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10437_conv:20874,5,sentimental,3,449,I am, it's just that the fleeting memories make me sad.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10437_conv:20874,6,sentimental,3,719,They always do. It'll get easier to think about with time,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10437_conv:20874,7,sentimental,3,449,I hope.  I keep her close to by heart.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10437_conv:20875,1,content,My cat likes to sleep under the covers with me a night.  He comes up and pulls at the blankets until I let him in and then curls up and sleeps by my side. ,719,My cat is such a comfort.  He likes to sleep under the covers with me.  ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10437_conv:20875,2,content,My cat likes to sleep under the covers with me a night.  He comes up and pulls at the blankets until I let him in and then curls up and sleeps by my side. ,449,That is awesome!  I have 5 cats.  They are pretty snobbish and only 2 like to cuddle.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10437_conv:20875,3,content,My cat likes to sleep under the covers with me a night.  He comes up and pulls at the blankets until I let him in and then curls up and sleeps by my side. ,719,Aww!  I've only the one right now, but he is the cuddliest kitty.  Demands to be under the blankets with me most nights.  ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10437_conv:20875,4,content,My cat likes to sleep under the covers with me a night.  He comes up and pulls at the blankets until I let him in and then curls up and sleeps by my side. ,449,That is sweet.  My cats have human names, lol.  What about yours?,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10437_conv:20875,5,content,My cat likes to sleep under the covers with me a night.  He comes up and pulls at the blankets until I let him in and then curls up and sleeps by my side. ,719,Same.  I got his out of an old detective novel.  ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10437_conv:20875,6,content,My cat likes to sleep under the covers with me a night.  He comes up and pulls at the blankets until I let him in and then curls up and sleeps by my side. ,449,I recently had to surrender 1, we had six before.  But he was being bullied by the others.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10437_conv:20875,7,content,My cat likes to sleep under the covers with me a night.  He comes up and pulls at the blankets until I let him in and then curls up and sleeps by my side. ,719,We do the best for them, even if it's not what we want.  ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10437_conv:20875,8,content,My cat likes to sleep under the covers with me a night.  He comes up and pulls at the blankets until I let him in and then curls up and sleeps by my side. ,449,I'm glad you have a cuddly fur-baby!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10438_conv:20876,1,surprised,I just came into the house,on the light and heard ,'happy birthday',181,I was given a beffitting birthday by my sibblings,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10438_conv:20876,2,surprised,I just came into the house,on the light and heard ,'happy birthday',381,How old did you turn? I hope you guys had some cake too!,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10438_conv:20876,3,surprised,I just came into the house,on the light and heard ,'happy birthday',181,I was a year older,lol,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10438_conv:20876,4,surprised,I just came into the house,on the light and heard ,'happy birthday',381,That's awesome! Well I want to say happy birthday to you as well!,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10438_conv:20877,1,disappointed,I was dog sitting my moms dog and she got out. It's been over 24 hours now since she's gone missing.,381,I lost my mom's dog yesterday and it's been about 24 hours since she went missing! I'm trying to find her but had to take a break.,5|5|5_4|4|4,
hit:10438_conv:20877,2,disappointed,I was dog sitting my moms dog and she got out. It's been over 24 hours now since she's gone missing.,181,So sorry about that,she will be found,5|5|5_4|4|4,
hit:10438_conv:20877,3,disappointed,I was dog sitting my moms dog and she got out. It's been over 24 hours now since she's gone missing.,381,Thank you so much that means a lot. I've posted on a few dog watching apps and people are supportive.,5|5|5_4|4|4,
hit:10438_conv:20877,4,disappointed,I was dog sitting my moms dog and she got out. It's been over 24 hours now since she's gone missing.,181,You are most welcomed,just keep trying,5|5|5_4|4|4,
hit:10439_conv:20878,1,ashamed,I have severe social phobia, anxiety and depression. I often miss work. Recently, due to this issue, I missed quite a bit of work and am now in trouble financially. ,726,I am broke and cannot afford to pay my bills. I am afraid that I have hurt my family because of my mental issues. I am embarrassed to tell anyone. ,5|5|5_5|4|5,
hit:10439_conv:20878,2,ashamed,I have severe social phobia, anxiety and depression. I often miss work. Recently, due to this issue, I missed quite a bit of work and am now in trouble financially. ,724,I'm so sorry to hear that. What can I do to help?,5|5|5_5|4|5,
hit:10439_conv:20878,3,ashamed,I have severe social phobia, anxiety and depression. I often miss work. Recently, due to this issue, I missed quite a bit of work and am now in trouble financially. ,726,I don't think there is anything you can do to help. This is something, I most likely will need to resolve on my own. Unfortunately. ,5|5|5_5|4|5,
hit:10439_conv:20878,4,ashamed,I have severe social phobia, anxiety and depression. I often miss work. Recently, due to this issue, I missed quite a bit of work and am now in trouble financially. ,724,Perhaps you could see a counselor or therapist, that might help.,5|5|5_5|4|5,
hit:10439_conv:20878,5,ashamed,I have severe social phobia, anxiety and depression. I often miss work. Recently, due to this issue, I missed quite a bit of work and am now in trouble financially. ,726,My insurance will not cover this type of expenses. I am medicated, but I do not feel that it helps. ,5|5|5_5|4|5,
hit:10439_conv:20878,6,ashamed,I have severe social phobia, anxiety and depression. I often miss work. Recently, due to this issue, I missed quite a bit of work and am now in trouble financially. ,724,Oh that's too bad. There are many free programs that you might be able to access.,5|5|5_5|4|5,
hit:10439_conv:20878,7,ashamed,I have severe social phobia, anxiety and depression. I often miss work. Recently, due to this issue, I missed quite a bit of work and am now in trouble financially. ,726,Maybe so, I should look into that. I feel like just speaking to someone about this would help. ,5|5|5_5|4|5,
hit:10439_conv:20878,8,ashamed,I have severe social phobia, anxiety and depression. I often miss work. Recently, due to this issue, I missed quite a bit of work and am now in trouble financially. ,724,That's a great idea. I'm always here if you need someone to talk to.,5|5|5_5|4|5,
hit:10439_conv:20879,1,caring,My sister had a baby. It's undescribeable how much love I feel for it.,724,I feel such love and joy towards my sister's new baby. It's overwhelming.,5|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10439_conv:20879,2,caring,My sister had a baby. It's undescribeable how much love I feel for it.,726,Oh wow, that is wonderful. Is it a girl or boy?,5|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10439_conv:20879,3,caring,My sister had a baby. It's undescribeable how much love I feel for it.,724,It's a girl. My first niece, and she's beautiful.,5|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10439_conv:20879,4,caring,My sister had a baby. It's undescribeable how much love I feel for it.,726,Congratulations! Babies are amazing. I have two of my own. Do you have any of your own?,5|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10439_conv:20879,5,caring,My sister had a baby. It's undescribeable how much love I feel for it.,724,Unfortunately no, not yet. My wife and I are hoping to have kids someday.,5|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10439_conv:20879,6,caring,My sister had a baby. It's undescribeable how much love I feel for it.,726,It is a wonderful feeling, to be a parent. Fingers crossed, you'll be next. ,5|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10439_conv:20879,7,caring,My sister had a baby. It's undescribeable how much love I feel for it.,724,Thanks! Right now I'm happy to be spoiling my new niece.,5|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10439_conv:20879,8,caring,My sister had a baby. It's undescribeable how much love I feel for it.,726,Well, keep up the good work. Give that baby all the love in the world. ,5|4|5_5|5|5,
hit:10440_conv:20881,1,caring,I have a great niece who was born on Halloween. I would do anything to help take care of her.,349,I have a 9 month old great niece, she's the sweetest thing ever.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10440_conv:20881,2,caring,I have a great niece who was born on Halloween. I would do anything to help take care of her.,211,Aww! Babies are so much fun! I have a new granddaughter, so I can relate!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10440_conv:20881,3,caring,I have a great niece who was born on Halloween. I would do anything to help take care of her.,349,I love being able to help take care of her.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10440_conv:20881,4,caring,I have a great niece who was born on Halloween. I would do anything to help take care of her.,211,I bet you are amazing with her- and such a blessing in her life.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10441_conv:20883,1,joyful,I got to see my baby born yesterday. It was like witnessing a miracle!,381,I got to see my baby born on Friday. My first son was born and is in healthy shape.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10441_conv:20883,2,joyful,I got to see my baby born yesterday. It was like witnessing a miracle!,717,wow that must have been so hard to do! i am so proud of you worker_2 how do you feel?,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10441_conv:20883,3,joyful,I got to see my baby born yesterday. It was like witnessing a miracle!,381,Like a brand new person. I want to do everything I can to show him how to love a good, moral life!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10441_conv:20883,4,joyful,I got to see my baby born yesterday. It was like witnessing a miracle!,717,YES! that is exactly what i would say keep doing that and i hope everything goes well,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10443_conv:20886,1,trusting,I know that my partner can never cheat on me no matter what,181,We are so close and always believe in each other,4|4|4_3|3|4,
hit:10443_conv:20886,2,trusting,I know that my partner can never cheat on me no matter what,548,Are you talking about me or someone else?,4|4|4_3|3|4,
hit:10443_conv:20886,3,trusting,I know that my partner can never cheat on me no matter what,181,Am taling about my partner,4|4|4_3|3|4,
hit:10443_conv:20886,4,trusting,I know that my partner can never cheat on me no matter what,548,It's good that you have someone who is there for you no matter what.,4|4|4_3|3|4,
hit:10443_conv:20887,1,excited,I got tickets to see Pink in concert. I can't wait, she is one of my favorite singers.,548,I got tickets to see Pink in concert. I can't wait, she is one of my favorite singers.,3|3|4_4|4|4,
hit:10443_conv:20887,2,excited,I got tickets to see Pink in concert. I can't wait, she is one of my favorite singers.,181,She sings so well,3|3|4_4|4|4,
hit:10443_conv:20887,3,excited,I got tickets to see Pink in concert. I can't wait, she is one of my favorite singers.,548,She also puts on a great show. Well worth the price of the tickets.,3|3|4_4|4|4,
hit:10443_conv:20887,4,excited,I got tickets to see Pink in concert. I can't wait, she is one of my favorite singers.,181,Thats so good,enough enjoyment,3|3|4_4|4|4,
hit:10444_conv:20888,1,trusting,When I met a new friend who offered to help, I assumed she was an honest person.,727,She had a genuine personality that made you feel comfortable almost immediately.,3|5|5_4|2|5,
hit:10444_conv:20888,2,trusting,When I met a new friend who offered to help, I assumed she was an honest person.,381,Who was she because she sounds special? Someone close to you?,3|5|5_4|2|5,
hit:10444_conv:20888,3,trusting,When I met a new friend who offered to help, I assumed she was an honest person.,727,She became one of my closest friends and confidant.,3|5|5_4|2|5,
hit:10444_conv:20888,4,trusting,When I met a new friend who offered to help, I assumed she was an honest person.,381,Did she pass away recently? I hope everything is ok.,3|5|5_4|2|5,
hit:10444_conv:20888,5,trusting,When I met a new friend who offered to help, I assumed she was an honest person.,727,She sadly moved far away.,3|5|5_4|2|5,
hit:10444_conv:20889,1,afraid,I'm scared my car may be on it's last legs. It keeps overheating on me and I don't understand anything about cars.,381,My car keeps overheating and it's definitely not a good sign. I'm afraid I may have to find a new car soon.,4|2|5_3|5|5,
hit:10444_conv:20889,2,afraid,I'm scared my car may be on it's last legs. It keeps overheating on me and I don't understand anything about cars.,727,Do you know what kind of car you want to get?,4|2|5_3|5|5,
hit:10444_conv:20889,3,afraid,I'm scared my car may be on it's last legs. It keeps overheating on me and I don't understand anything about cars.,381,Possibly a truck this time. I've never had the pleasure of owning one.,4|2|5_3|5|5,
hit:10444_conv:20889,4,afraid,I'm scared my car may be on it's last legs. It keeps overheating on me and I don't understand anything about cars.,727,What kind of things would you use the truck for?,4|2|5_3|5|5,
hit:10445_conv:20891,1,surprised,I had no clue what I was going to make for supper. When I got home my husband had fixed us a wonderful meal.,548,I had no clue what I was going to make for supper. When I got home my husband had fixed us a wonderful meal.,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10445_conv:20891,2,surprised,I had no clue what I was going to make for supper. When I got home my husband had fixed us a wonderful meal.,717,wow! that's so nice of him, what did he make?,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10445_conv:20891,3,surprised,I had no clue what I was going to make for supper. When I got home my husband had fixed us a wonderful meal.,548,My favorite Enchiladas. I was caught completely off guard by this but I loved it.,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10445_conv:20891,4,surprised,I had no clue what I was going to make for supper. When I got home my husband had fixed us a wonderful meal.,717,such a nice person! good finding him,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10446_conv:20892,1,ashamed,ugh! I was at walmart the other day and slipped and fell right on my butt! to top it off, I was wearing a skirt and no panties. everyone around me saw eveything!,390,everyone around me was pointing and laughing. I think I saw a couple of smartphones whip out and people taking pictures ,5|5|5_4|4|4,
hit:10446_conv:20892,2,ashamed,ugh! I was at walmart the other day and slipped and fell right on my butt! to top it off, I was wearing a skirt and no panties. everyone around me saw eveything!,181,What really happened?,5|5|5_4|4|4,
hit:10446_conv:20892,3,ashamed,ugh! I was at walmart the other day and slipped and fell right on my butt! to top it off, I was wearing a skirt and no panties. everyone around me saw eveything!,390,I slipped and fell at walmart. while wearing a skirt with no panties. ,5|5|5_4|4|4,
hit:10446_conv:20892,4,ashamed,ugh! I was at walmart the other day and slipped and fell right on my butt! to top it off, I was wearing a skirt and no panties. everyone around me saw eveything!,181,Oh,so sorry about that,5|5|5_4|4|4,
hit:10446_conv:20893,1,ashamed,My shoe peeled off at the middle of the road and guess what i saw when i looked up,all eyes was on me,181,I couldnt help myself esteem,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10446_conv:20893,2,ashamed,My shoe peeled off at the middle of the road and guess what i saw when i looked up,all eyes was on me,390,oh no. what happened?,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10446_conv:20893,3,ashamed,My shoe peeled off at the middle of the road and guess what i saw when i looked up,all eyes was on me,181,My shoe peeld off at the middle of the road,when i looked up,all eyes were on me,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10446_conv:20893,4,ashamed,My shoe peeled off at the middle of the road and guess what i saw when i looked up,all eyes was on me,390,that is terrible! I know exactly how you feel,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10448_conv:20896,1,embarrassed,I was visiting the Seattle once and I slipped on the side walk.  Fell right on my knee right in front of this rather cute guy.  ,719,I went to Seattle once and it is such a pretty city.  But the rain, oh the rain.  I fell right in front of this cute guy.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10448_conv:20896,2,embarrassed,I was visiting the Seattle once and I slipped on the side walk.  Fell right on my knee right in front of this rather cute guy.  ,381,Did he try to help you up? I've always wanted to see Seattle!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10448_conv:20896,3,embarrassed,I was visiting the Seattle once and I slipped on the side walk.  Fell right on my knee right in front of this rather cute guy.  ,719,He didn't at all.  I felt so clumsy!  Seattle is nice, but don't go in March.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10448_conv:20896,4,embarrassed,I was visiting the Seattle once and I slipped on the side walk.  Fell right on my knee right in front of this rather cute guy.  ,381,I'll remember not to go in March! I'm sorry you fell I hope you're not hurt!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10448_conv:20896,5,embarrassed,I was visiting the Seattle once and I slipped on the side walk.  Fell right on my knee right in front of this rather cute guy.  ,719,Thankfully not.  I'm told the summer is very nice.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10448_conv:20897,1,impressed,My wife has really stepped up her cooking lately. I'm eating so healthy these days and the weight keeps dropping!,381,My wife's cooking is amazing these days. She has really come a long way from when we first met.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10448_conv:20897,2,impressed,My wife has really stepped up her cooking lately. I'm eating so healthy these days and the weight keeps dropping!,719,That's wonderful!  It's a lot of work learning to cook.  ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10448_conv:20897,3,impressed,My wife has really stepped up her cooking lately. I'm eating so healthy these days and the weight keeps dropping!,381,I can only grill food on a barbecue pit. She has learned how to create new dishes I have never even thought possible.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10448_conv:20897,4,impressed,My wife has really stepped up her cooking lately. I'm eating so healthy these days and the weight keeps dropping!,719,Grilling is a skill too!  Sounds like she is really enjoying cooking.  It's really an artform,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10449_conv:20898,1,annoyed,I remembered when my little sister spilled oil on my white trouser , I got so mad,686,I got so mad,  when my little sister spilled oil on my white trouser ,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10449_conv:20898,2,annoyed,I remembered when my little sister spilled oil on my white trouser , I got so mad,620,Oh, that's rough. I bet that ruined them, didn't it?,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10449_conv:20898,3,annoyed,I remembered when my little sister spilled oil on my white trouser , I got so mad,686,exactly,  and I was already late to work ,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10449_conv:20898,4,annoyed,I remembered when my little sister spilled oil on my white trouser , I got so mad,620,Sounds like the start to a bad day.,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10449_conv:20899,1,content,I love the feeling of getting home from work and having a few hours before bed to hang out and watch TV and stuff.,620,I love the feeling of getting home from work and having a few hours before bed to hang out and watch TV and stuff.,5|5|5_4|4|4,
hit:10449_conv:20899,2,content,I love the feeling of getting home from work and having a few hours before bed to hang out and watch TV and stuff.,686,Exactly,  that feels nice ,5|5|5_4|4|4,
hit:10449_conv:20899,3,content,I love the feeling of getting home from work and having a few hours before bed to hang out and watch TV and stuff.,620,I think it's needed to keep our heads straight, so we don't get bogged down in the nonsense of daily life.,5|5|5_4|4|4,
hit:10449_conv:20899,4,content,I love the feeling of getting home from work and having a few hours before bed to hang out and watch TV and stuff.,686,U are on point.  It helps  a lot,5|5|5_4|4|4,
hit:10450_conv:20900,1,faithful,I've been married to my husband for 28 years.,390,my husband and I have been married 28 years. I've never even looked at another man.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10450_conv:20900,2,faithful,I've been married to my husband for 28 years.,49,That is amazing. There are not a lot of people that can say that.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10450_conv:20900,3,faithful,I've been married to my husband for 28 years.,390,thank you. we've been through a lot, but I've always stuck by his side,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10450_conv:20900,4,faithful,I've been married to my husband for 28 years.,49,You are so lucky. I recently got married, but we have been together for 12 years and are always there for one another.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10451_conv:20902,1,faithful,When I met my now husband, I knew right away that I would be with him forever.,727,My husband is the most trustworthy person I know and he makes me a better person.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10451_conv:20902,2,faithful,When I met my now husband, I knew right away that I would be with him forever.,381,I'm sure he feels the same way about you! How long have you two been married?,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10451_conv:20902,3,faithful,When I met my now husband, I knew right away that I would be with him forever.,727,We have been married for nearly 10 years now. It is the best decision I have ever made.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10451_conv:20902,4,faithful,When I met my now husband, I knew right away that I would be with him forever.,381,I would have to agree with you on that. 10 years is an amazing amount of time to be together, I hope for another 10 years!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10451_conv:20902,5,faithful,When I met my now husband, I knew right away that I would be with him forever.,727,Thank you. I would do it all over again if I had the choice.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10451_conv:20903,1,grateful,My son told me he loved me today. After years of not talking he finally came over.,381,My son told me how much he loves and appreciates me. I haven't seen him around here in over 5 years.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10451_conv:20903,2,grateful,My son told me he loved me today. After years of not talking he finally came over.,727,I'm sorry to hear that. Sometimes life gets in the way and we forget what is the most important to us.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10451_conv:20903,3,grateful,My son told me he loved me today. After years of not talking he finally came over.,381,It felt so good to see him again, it's been so long. I just hope he keeps coming around because I miss him a lot.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10451_conv:20903,4,grateful,My son told me he loved me today. After years of not talking he finally came over.,727,Does he live near you?,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10452_conv:20904,1,lonely,My daughter moved out and now I'm all alone. I feel so isolated and to myself these days I don't know what to do.,381,These days I feel so isolated and alone. My daughter moved out so it's only me these days.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10452_conv:20904,2,lonely,My daughter moved out and now I'm all alone. I feel so isolated and to myself these days I don't know what to do.,727,That is a hard stage of life that I am not looking forward to! Do you get to talk to her often?,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10452_conv:20904,3,lonely,My daughter moved out and now I'm all alone. I feel so isolated and to myself these days I don't know what to do.,381,Yes about once a week, sometimes more. She just went off to college so she lives out of state.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10452_conv:20904,4,lonely,My daughter moved out and now I'm all alone. I feel so isolated and to myself these days I don't know what to do.,727,That is sad, but it is wonderful that you are able to ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10452_conv:20905,1,sentimental,When my grandmother crocheted a blanket for me as a child, it became one of my most prized possessions. It is a beautiful pink and blue blanket. I have given it to my daughter now for her to enjoy.,727,My grandmother is such a wonderful person and when I was 5 years old, she crocheted me the most beautiful pink and blue baby doll blanket. ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10452_conv:20905,2,sentimental,When my grandmother crocheted a blanket for me as a child, it became one of my most prized possessions. It is a beautiful pink and blue blanket. I have given it to my daughter now for her to enjoy.,381,Do you still have the blanket? That's an amazing gift from a wonderful part of your family.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10452_conv:20905,3,sentimental,When my grandmother crocheted a blanket for me as a child, it became one of my most prized possessions. It is a beautiful pink and blue blanket. I have given it to my daughter now for her to enjoy.,727,I do. I recently gave it to my own daughter for her to enjoy! It is so special.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10452_conv:20905,4,sentimental,When my grandmother crocheted a blanket for me as a child, it became one of my most prized possessions. It is a beautiful pink and blue blanket. I have given it to my daughter now for her to enjoy.,381,I hope she cherishes it as much as you do! You're so awesome for doing that!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10452_conv:20905,5,sentimental,When my grandmother crocheted a blanket for me as a child, it became one of my most prized possessions. It is a beautiful pink and blue blanket. I have given it to my daughter now for her to enjoy.,727,I think she will. She is a special girl.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10454_conv:20908,1,devastated,When our house flooded, it was a terrible occasion. It took a lot of work to overcome the challenges we faced.,727,During a storm, a water main broke and flooded my entire house just a few weeks after my son was born. It destroyed a lot of our belongings and the house was ruined.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10454_conv:20908,2,devastated,When our house flooded, it was a terrible occasion. It took a lot of work to overcome the challenges we faced.,381,I hope you're recovering well enough! That is absolutely devastating news to read.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10454_conv:20908,3,devastated,When our house flooded, it was a terrible occasion. It took a lot of work to overcome the challenges we faced.,727,We have recovered finally. We ended up having to live in a hotel for a few weeks until we found a new place to live. Our family was very helpful.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10454_conv:20908,4,devastated,When our house flooded, it was a terrible occasion. It took a lot of work to overcome the challenges we faced.,381,That's great news! Did you have insurance? ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10454_conv:20908,5,devastated,When our house flooded, it was a terrible occasion. It took a lot of work to overcome the challenges we faced.,727,We did so the financial aspect was not much of a hardship, but it was during Thanksgiving holiday so it made Christmas shopping difficult.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10454_conv:20909,1,guilty,I shouldn't have left work early today but I was feeling super ill. I know tonight I'll have to play catch up with my work.,381,I left work early today and feel a little bad about it. I was really sick and now I know I'll have to play catch up later today when I go back.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10454_conv:20909,2,guilty,I shouldn't have left work early today but I was feeling super ill. I know tonight I'll have to play catch up with my work.,727,Oh, you shouldn't feel bad! Everyone gets sick every once in a while and I would hope that your boss and coworkers were very understanding of your needs. It is important to take care of yourself.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10454_conv:20909,3,guilty,I shouldn't have left work early today but I was feeling super ill. I know tonight I'll have to play catch up with my work.,381,I hope they understand but it's usually frowned upon. I just was so violently ill I couldn't be there any longer.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10454_conv:20909,4,guilty,I shouldn't have left work early today but I was feeling super ill. I know tonight I'll have to play catch up with my work.,727,Well, it is very important for you to take care of yourself and if your boss doesn't understand that, I would be searching for other employment. Hopefully, they are completely fine with your needs.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10455_conv:20910,1,embarrassed,I'm so mortified! I sent my boss an inappropriate text. I thought I was texting my best friend.,104,I accidentally sent my boss an inappropriate text last night! I'm so mortified!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10455_conv:20910,2,embarrassed,I'm so mortified! I sent my boss an inappropriate text. I thought I was texting my best friend.,76,Oh crap! That's not good!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10455_conv:20910,3,embarrassed,I'm so mortified! I sent my boss an inappropriate text. I thought I was texting my best friend.,104,No, it's not! I meant to send it to my best friend. I don't know how I'm going to face him on Monday!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10455_conv:20910,4,embarrassed,I'm so mortified! I sent my boss an inappropriate text. I thought I was texting my best friend.,76,That may be kinda awkward.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10456_conv:20912,1,grateful,My girlfriend came to my house last week and helped me with my chores,686,My girlfriend helped me with my chores when she came to my house last weekend ,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10456_conv:20912,2,grateful,My girlfriend came to my house last week and helped me with my chores,76,That's nice of her!,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10456_conv:20912,3,grateful,My girlfriend came to my house last week and helped me with my chores,686,Oh yeah,  she is so lovely ,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10456_conv:20912,4,grateful,My girlfriend came to my house last week and helped me with my chores,76,It sounds like it. You deserve someone like that.,4|4|4_5|5|5,
hit:10457_conv:20914,1,caring,When a family member passed away, my heart ached for his wife. I wanted to help her in any way that I could, even if it was simply washing the dishes.,727,My uncle tragically passed away in a car accident, leaving behind his wife and son. I desperately wanted to help them in their time of need, even if it was simply cleaning the house. They are the sweetest family.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10457_conv:20914,2,caring,When a family member passed away, my heart ached for his wife. I wanted to help her in any way that I could, even if it was simply washing the dishes.,129,That is really good and will be helpful.  I lost my wife to cancer years ago and people helping was great.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10457_conv:20914,3,caring,When a family member passed away, my heart ached for his wife. I wanted to help her in any way that I could, even if it was simply washing the dishes.,727,That's awful. Life comes with so many challenges. They were the family that helped everyone around them, no matter what they needed. It felt good to be able to give back to them.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10457_conv:20914,4,caring,When a family member passed away, my heart ached for his wife. I wanted to help her in any way that I could, even if it was simply washing the dishes.,129,I would encourage you to help as much as possible.  I do the same now since I know what loss feels like.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10457_conv:20914,5,caring,When a family member passed away, my heart ached for his wife. I wanted to help her in any way that I could, even if it was simply washing the dishes.,727,That is wonderful that you have been able to turn a tragedy into an opportunity to empathize with others facing the same difficulties. ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10457_conv:20914,6,caring,When a family member passed away, my heart ached for his wife. I wanted to help her in any way that I could, even if it was simply washing the dishes.,129,Yes, the support and love from others that we received was incredible so I always try to help as much as I can.  Even the smallest gestures were meaningful. ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10457_conv:20914,7,caring,When a family member passed away, my heart ached for his wife. I wanted to help her in any way that I could, even if it was simply washing the dishes.,727,Not many people reciprocate the efforts of others and I commend you for considering your own suffering and using it to better others.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10457_conv:20915,1,faithful,My wife battled cancer and it was a time that we were faithful to God,129,Through our family's tragedy, we learned that there is a larger connection between people.  Our church family was huge is supporting us.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10457_conv:20915,2,faithful,My wife battled cancer and it was a time that we were faithful to God,727,I have always had a great church family. My aunt's church was pivotal in showing me how to be the best I could be and developing my character.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10457_conv:20915,3,faithful,My wife battled cancer and it was a time that we were faithful to God,129,That is great.  I don't think that I would have done very well without our church family.  We felt loved the entire battle.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10457_conv:20915,4,faithful,My wife battled cancer and it was a time that we were faithful to God,727,As a military family, we move a lot and finding a good church has been one of my first missions when we get to a new place. It is sad having to leave good churches, but I am blessed to have support from across the country now.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10458_conv:20916,1,trusting,I was really scared about how sick my cat was and, at first, feared that I would lose him. But the vet I took her to did some research and found out exactly what was wrong with my cat.,728,I was really scared about the possibility of losing my cat to a bad illness, but I was lucky that the vet worked hard to find out what was wrong.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10458_conv:20916,2,trusting,I was really scared about how sick my cat was and, at first, feared that I would lose him. But the vet I took her to did some research and found out exactly what was wrong with my cat.,289,Oh wow, I'm glad the vet was able to do that. It must have been scary. ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10458_conv:20916,3,trusting,I was really scared about how sick my cat was and, at first, feared that I would lose him. But the vet I took her to did some research and found out exactly what was wrong with my cat.,728,Yes, I was petrified at first because it looked dire! The vet knew how badly I wanted help for my cat, so thank heavens she cared to get an answer!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10458_conv:20916,4,trusting,I was really scared about how sick my cat was and, at first, feared that I would lose him. But the vet I took her to did some research and found out exactly what was wrong with my cat.,289,I'm so happy to hear that for you! I know how animals are the same as family members. ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10458_conv:20917,1,faithful,A friend of mine is going through a hard time. I had plans with my boyfriend, but decided to cancel them to go out with my friend. She really appreciated this,289,I recently had plans with my boyfriend, but one of my good friends is going through a really hard time, so I canceled with him to go hang out with her instead. I think she was really appreciative of it. ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10458_conv:20917,2,faithful,A friend of mine is going through a hard time. I had plans with my boyfriend, but decided to cancel them to go out with my friend. She really appreciated this,728,Oh, that was wonderful of you! Everyone needs a friend like you who understands that emotional support is very important!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10458_conv:20917,3,faithful,A friend of mine is going through a hard time. I had plans with my boyfriend, but decided to cancel them to go out with my friend. She really appreciated this,289,Thanks, I appreciate that. I know she would do the same for me, so I'm happy to be there for her. ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10458_conv:20917,4,faithful,A friend of mine is going through a hard time. I had plans with my boyfriend, but decided to cancel them to go out with my friend. She really appreciated this,728,You are both lucky then! She will remember your kindness for a long time.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10459_conv:20918,1,devastated,I was devastated when I found out that my daughter was moving to another state.  It made me sad not to be near her anymore.,449,Hi! I just found out that my daughter is moving to another state.,5|5|5_5|5|5,<HI>
hit:10459_conv:20918,2,devastated,I was devastated when I found out that my daughter was moving to another state.  It made me sad not to be near her anymore.,49,I'm sorry, I know that must make you sad and stressed. I have a daughter who lives pretty far away too,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10459_conv:20918,3,devastated,I was devastated when I found out that my daughter was moving to another state.  It made me sad not to be near her anymore.,449,She got a good job so I am happy for her.  But I can't imagine not being able to see her every day.  Do you get to talk to yours often?,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10459_conv:20918,4,devastated,I was devastated when I found out that my daughter was moving to another state.  It made me sad not to be near her anymore.,49,We talk every week and text all the time. It is hard, but I know she's happy so that's all that counts. Thats great she found a good job,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10459_conv:20918,5,devastated,I was devastated when I found out that my daughter was moving to another state.  It made me sad not to be near her anymore.,449,With FaceTime I guess it won't be so bad.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10459_conv:20918,6,devastated,I was devastated when I found out that my daughter was moving to another state.  It made me sad not to be near her anymore.,49,We've never facetimed, but that's such a good idea. Especially now that she has kids. Why have I never thought of that lol,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10459_conv:20918,7,devastated,I was devastated when I found out that my daughter was moving to another state.  It made me sad not to be near her anymore.,449,lol -- I FaceTime with my 10 year who is upstairs in his bedroom!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10459_conv:20918,8,devastated,I was devastated when I found out that my daughter was moving to another state.  It made me sad not to be near her anymore.,49,That is hilarious...but awesome at the same time!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10460_conv:20920,1,grateful,I am so thankful for all the help I recevied after my mom passed away.,631,I am so thankful for all the help I received after my mom passed away. I was able to overcome my grief thanks to all my friends and family :) ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10460_conv:20920,2,grateful,I am so thankful for all the help I recevied after my mom passed away.,719,I'm so sorry to hear about your mom, but it's great that you had such support to help you through.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10460_conv:20920,3,grateful,I am so thankful for all the help I recevied after my mom passed away.,631,Yeah, they have been so supportive these last few years. I really love them and am so grateful to have them! ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10460_conv:20920,4,grateful,I am so thankful for all the help I recevied after my mom passed away.,719,Having a strong support system is so important in life.  Don't know what I would do without my friends.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10460_conv:20921,1,anticipating,I'm planning a trip to San Francisco to visit friends next year.  I'm very excited, I haven't had a chance to see my friends in 4 years.,719,My oldest friends live in San Francisco and I haven't had a chance to visit in four years.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10460_conv:20921,2,anticipating,I'm planning a trip to San Francisco to visit friends next year.  I'm very excited, I haven't had a chance to see my friends in 4 years.,631,I am sorry to hear that, you must miss them. Why haven't you been able to visit them? ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10460_conv:20921,3,anticipating,I'm planning a trip to San Francisco to visit friends next year.  I'm very excited, I haven't had a chance to see my friends in 4 years.,719,Money, I just finished grad school last year and found a full time job.  Now I have a bit of vacation and I'm very excited to start planning the trip!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10460_conv:20921,4,anticipating,I'm planning a trip to San Francisco to visit friends next year.  I'm very excited, I haven't had a chance to see my friends in 4 years.,631,I see, that is very understandable, I am really glad that you will be able to see them soon! I hope you have a safe trip and a great time! :) ,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10461_conv:20923,1,content,I just bought my first house. It is a quaint little house, but I am so happy here.,727,My house is perfect for my family. Just big enough for everyone. I love it.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10461_conv:20923,2,content,I just bought my first house. It is a quaint little house, but I am so happy here.,76,That's awesome! I close on my first house Monday!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10461_conv:20923,3,content,I just bought my first house. It is a quaint little house, but I am so happy here.,727,How exciting! I love being a homeowner!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10461_conv:20923,4,content,I just bought my first house. It is a quaint little house, but I am so happy here.,76,I think I will too!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10462_conv:20924,1,embarrassed,My shorts fell down one time in gym class. I tried to catch them and pull them up before people noticed.,128,My shorts fell down one time in gym class.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10462_conv:20924,2,embarrassed,My shorts fell down one time in gym class. I tried to catch them and pull them up before people noticed.,729,Oh wow, that is super embarrassing. Did anyone take a picture?,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10462_conv:20924,3,embarrassed,My shorts fell down one time in gym class. I tried to catch them and pull them up before people noticed.,128,I don't think so, I tried to pull them up as fast as possible.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10462_conv:20924,4,embarrassed,My shorts fell down one time in gym class. I tried to catch them and pull them up before people noticed.,729,That's lucky.  You could have ended up on the Internet otherwise!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10462_conv:20925,1,trusting,I had to have my tonsils removed last year.  The surgeon was reassuring when I was worried, which was very helpful.,729,I had to have my tonsils removed last year. The surgeon was reassuring when I was worried, which was very helpful.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10462_conv:20925,2,trusting,I had to have my tonsils removed last year.  The surgeon was reassuring when I was worried, which was very helpful.,128,That's good, I imagine that all surgeries can be stressful.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10462_conv:20925,3,trusting,I had to have my tonsils removed last year.  The surgeon was reassuring when I was worried, which was very helpful.,729,Yes, I agree.  But you just feel like you have had a great sleep!,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10462_conv:20925,4,trusting,I had to have my tonsils removed last year.  The surgeon was reassuring when I was worried, which was very helpful.,128,That's good to hear, anesthesia seems very helpful.,5|5|5_5|5|5,
hit:10463_conv:20926,1,faithful,Just last week I had a conflict.  I wanted to go to the movies, but I already had plans to help a friend move. I stayed faithful to my friend and helped him.,730,I think the movie would have been fun, but I felt much better honoring my prior commitment and being faithful to that friend.,4|5|5_4|5|4,
hit:10463_conv:20926,2,faithful,Just last week I had a conflict.  I wanted to go to the movies, but I already had plans to help a friend move. I stayed faithful to my friend and helped him.,527,Sounds like you made the right call,4|5|5_4|5|4,
hit:10463_conv:20926,3,faithful,Just last week I had a conflict.  I wanted to go to the movies, but I already had plans to help a friend move. I stayed faithful to my friend and helped him.,730,I think so and my friend really appreciated it.,4|5|5_4|5|4,
hit:10463_conv:20926,4,faithful,Just last week I had a conflict.  I wanted to go to the movies, but I already had plans to help a friend move. I stayed faithful to my friend and helped him.,527,I bet, it can be really disappointing when people bail on plans,4|5|5_4|5|4,
hit:10463_conv:20927,1,prepared,I filled out all my new patient paper work before my doctor's appointment.  The nurses commented they were so happy they didn't have to wait for me to do it in the office.,527,I filled out all of my new patient" paper work before my appointment with my new doctor.


[System] prepared: I filled out all my new patient paper work before my doctor's appointment.  The nurses commented they were so happy they didn't have to wait for me to do it in the office.

[User] Did it take a long time to complete?

[Assistant] Not too long, maybe 15 minutes?  The nurses commented that they were really happy they didn't have to wait on me to do it in the office lol

[User] That's awesome! I am glad it didn't take long, because those have been a pain in the past for me.


[System] apprehensive: The building where I work is under construction and senior leadership was recently offering tours to staff members. I was a little nervous about having to walk through a live construction zone and thought I might trip on something.

[Assistant] I work in a building that has parts of it under construction and our senior staff is offering tours. I'm a little worried about tripping and falling on something if I take a tour through the live construction zone.

[Assistant] I can certainly relate to you, it could be a safety hazard.

[Assistant] I agree! I think if I do it, i need to buy some closed-toe shoes and make sure I'm wearing the correct clothing.

[Assistant] That's a smart move, that would reduce the risk of injury.


[System] faithful: I have been at my job for over 10 years and though I feel like I could use some additional experiences, I also feel a sense of loyalty to my current company.

[Assistant] It is hard to make a decision to take a new job when you have been with one employer for a long time.

[Assistant] I agree. Do you find yourself in that situation right now?

[Assistant] Yes, I feel like I need new experiences but I feel a sense of loyalty to my current employer.

[Assistant] That's very kind of you to be so considerate. Hopefully the right choice will make itself obvious to you in the near future.

[Assistant] I agree, I want to keep growing in my career.

[Assistant] Well good luck to you!

[Assistant] Thank you, I appreciate it!


[System] prepared: Had a interview for a new job.  Really wanted it so found out all I could.  Got the job.

[User] Looking to get this new job in my area.

[User] Great, I hope you get it.

[User] Me too, been researching everything I can about them so I am ready for it.

[User] What type of job is it?


[System] trusting: I was told from a little girl that my greatgrand parents farm would one day come to me. I believed it all my life and never questioned it. Momma sold it out from under me 2 months ago.

[User] How can a mother do that to a child?

[User] Oh no, do what?

[User] I"I was told from a little girl that my greatgrand parents farm would one day come to me. I believed it all my life and never questioned it. Momma sold it out from under me 2 months ago.".

[User] That's terrible, hope you weren't counting on it for fincancial reasons

[User] No but my heart was in that farm. I had to sell my cows and I had bottle raised them all and had had them for 6 years.


[System] confident: I'm installing a new dishwasher in my kitchen. I've never done it, but I've watched a bunch of YouTube videos, so I feel like I'm ready to tackle the task.

[User] I'm installing a new dishwasher in my kitchen today!

[Assistant] That is great! Are you doing it yourself or are you hiring someone to help you out?

[User] I'm doing it myself! I've never done it, but I watched a bunch of YouTube videos, so I feel like I'm ready to tackle this job!

[Assistant] That sounds exciting, it is always nice to have new kitchen appliances! I hope all goes well


[System] lonely: I have been feeling a little lonely lately

[Assistant] I have been feeling a little lonely lately

[User] I'm sorry to hear that! Maybe you can find a local club so you can meet people with similar interests!

[Assistant] That sounds like a great idea! I would love to just dance and shake off all these bad vibes! :)

[User] That sounds like fun! And a great cure for loneliness!


[System] caring: My son had a bad day at school and I was really concerned about him.  I made him his favorite dinner and talked with him about what happened.

[Assistant] Hello!  I was really worried about my son the other day.

[Assistant] Oh no, what was wrong?

[Assistant] He came home from school and said it was a bad day.  He seemed very down.

[Assistant] Aw, did it turn out okay?

[Assistant] It did.  I made him his favorite dinner and we talked about how some days will just be worse than others.


[System] disappointed: Years ago, we were trying to buy our first house and the financing fell through.  We had to switch lenders and it took another six months to find a place.

[Assistant] When we were trying to buy our first home, our financing fell through.

[Assistant] Oh no!  That had to be frustrating. I hope it wasn't too close to closing.

[Assistant] It was a couple weeks out.  We had to switch lenders and it took another six months to find a place.

[Assistant] I hope you still found a great home! The home buying process is certainly frustrating.


[System] sad: I am so sad, my mother recently passed away from a heart attack

[Assistant] I am very sad, my mother recently passed away from a heart attack

[Assistant] Oh no. I'm so sorry. I totally understand how you feel. Mine passed away a few years ago, It's very difficult

[Assistant] Yeah, I am very lucky to a have a great boyfriend, has has been very supportive and is helping me pull myself together.

[Assistant] It definitely helps to have a lot of support around you. Take care of yourself through this very difficult time.


[System] embarrassed: I forgot I was wearing makeup. I rubbed my face then walked around with eyeliner smeared all over.

[Assistant] Yesterday, I walked around with makeup smeared all over my face. I wish someone had told me.

[Assistant] Oh my goodness! I did that after swimming one day. I was so busy getting the kids dressed that I forgot to clean my face. Black mascara all down my cheeks.

[Assistant] Did anyone tell you? I completely forgot I even had it on until I got home.

[Assistant] No and I went to the grocery store and the library like that! No one said a word. It was so embarrassing.


[System] embarrassed: My son ran out without his pants on at a party. I was mortified.

[Assistant] My son was potty training when he was 2 and he ran out at a party without his pants on! My jaw dropped and I couldn't hide my red face!

[Assistant] Were there other parents there? I think that anyone who has kids would understand.

[Assistant] No, they were a bunch of single people that my husband works with. They all laughed about it, but I was humiliated. It is funny to think back on now.

[Assistant] I can understand being humiliated in the moment. Thankfully most kids grow out of that phase!

[Assistant] Yes, he is older now and would never do that. He is such a funny kid though. I was glad when that phase passed!

[Assistant] 2 year olds don't know any better. And when everyone laughs, it can make them want to do it again.


[System] ashamed: I was shopping at the grocery store when I noticed my fly was undone.

[Assistant] Hey there, I had an embarrassing situation today..

[User] Oh, I'm sorry to hear that! It can be tough when we feel that we have lost face in front of others.

[Assistant] I was at the grocery store when I noticed my fly was undone!

[User] Well, let's pretend that no one noticed! Either that, if someone noticed, perhaps they smiled when they thought "Wow, I've had that happen before, too"


[System] ashamed:  I had to tell a friend recently that I could not go out to dinner and a movie with them because I didn't have enough money.

[User] It wasn't easy recently when I told a friend I needed to stay home from going out for food and some entertainment because it wasn't something I could afford.

[Assistant] I am sorry to hear that. I hope your financial situation improves in the future.

[User] I do, too! Though, when you are caretaking for a parent, I realize it will be a very long time before that happens.

[Assistant] I believe that you will be in a better situation soon.


[System] apprehensive: I was nervous when I sang a song at a concert the other night.

[User] I was rather nervous the other night when I was waiting to sing at a concert.

[Assistant] Oh wow! How did it go?

[User] Well people said they liked it, so I was glad, but I don't really think I sing that great.

[Assistant] I'm sure you did great! I'd be a ball of nerves too, though.

[User] Thanks! It's not something I do very often so yeah, I was quite anxious about it.

[Assistant] Haha but you survied, Go you!

[User] Oh yeah, I got through it, which is the main thing!


[System] sentimental: A few months ago I found some old family pictures. It made me miss old times.

[Assistant] A few months ago I found some old family pictures. It made me miss old times

[User] Were they from when you were a kid?

[Assistant] They were. It made me miss all my cousins and Aunts and Uncles who've passed.

[User] I know what you mean. I sure miss my departed loved ones.


[System] furious: I'm so mad at my neighbor! He's working on his home and dropped nails in the street. I got a flat tire because of him.

[User] I'm so mad at my neighbor! He's working on his home and dropped nails in the street.

[Assistant] Oh no! Does he do that a lot?

[User] Not really, but I was so annoyed when I came out this morning to a flat tire on my car.

[Assistant] I would be also. You should try to get him to fix your tire.


[System] devastated: Last year my grandmother passed away. It's still hard to cope with.

[Assistant] Last year my grandmother passed away. It's still hard to cope with

[User] Oh, I'm sorry to hear that. Losing a family member is so hard.

[Assistant] It is. I still can't look at old pictures of her.

[User] I miss my grandmother every day. I hope things get easier for you over time.

[Assistant] I'm sorry. Thanks, That's really nice.


[System] trusting: I as considering a job change, leaving somewhere I had been for 16 years. I wasn't sure if it was the right thing.

[User] My husband convinced me that it was a good move.

[Assistant] What was a good move?

[User] Changing jobs after 16 years at one place.

[Assistant] Oh wow that is a long time. Why did you change your job?

[User] We were under new managment and the new supervisor was mean to everyone. I didn't even want to go there on a daily basis.


[System] embarrassed: I was at a fancy restaurant and by accident I knocked my drink over and it spilled all over the table.

[Assistant] I went out for dinner the other night and it was at a really fancy restaurant.  I knocked my drink over by accident.

[User] Hey a similar thing happened to me! I hope no one saw!

[Assistant] It was a full glass, and it spilled all over the table.

[User] Ooops! I'm sorry to hear that. I'll tell you what though, it happens to the best of us! It's just a drink.


[System] ashamed: My mother in law told me not to eat any of her chicken corn chowder before she got home. I tried to move it to get to a loaf of bread and I ended up spilling it all over the floor.

[User] I was trying to get to a loaf of bread in the fridge, and I knocked over a full tub of my mother in law's chicken corn chowder!

[Assistant] That must have been messy.  Were you able to get it all cleaned up?

[User] Yeah but now the kitchen smells like milky soup! My mother in law is going to be a little peeved too, oops.

[Assistant] I'm sure she's done something like that in the past herself though.

[User] Yeah but you'd never know for sure haha!


[System] trusting: I went skydiving many years ago and jumped out of a plane with someone strapped to my back. They had the parachute. They could have let me loose anytime they felt like it. I had a lot of trust that they were going to get me to the ground.

[User] When I was a teenager I went tandem skydiving. This involved a total stranger being strapped to my back and jumping out of a plane. Thinking back on it now, I had to put a lot of trust that that dude wasn't a psycho murderer.

[Assistant] Wow that definitely sounds like a crazy situation!

[User] Haha yea it does now. Back then it seemed so reasonable.

[Assistant] Way to live vicariously!