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0 | NTA,
>I recently inherited a good amount of money from my mom
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you inherited the money, not him. he shouldn't tell you what you should do with the money that was given (gifted, in an Unfortunate Event that is)to you.
>My husband's mom joked about paying for dinner out of my " inheritance pocket"... | 100ogg4 | -Goyangi- | 1,672,595,357 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "-Goyangi-", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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1 | Similar situation although it’s been 10 years now. Every time how lucky I am comes up I tell them I’d give it all back and more have my parent back. | 100ogg4 | 1stviplette | 1,672,601,804 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "1stviplette", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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2 | Not to mention the comment her husband made about “not being to help her mom while she was sick” Which means OP had no help from them but now they want her inheritance. Sick. NTA. | 100ogg4 | 2ndhouseonthestreet | 1,672,600,963 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "2ndhouseonthestreet", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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3 | This is really important— my understanding is you need up be VERY careful not to mix inheritance with any marital assets. | 100ogg4 | AL92212 | 1,672,610,678 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AL92212", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fla... | [
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4 | Agree, NTA.
OP is very smart to have a separate account. Inheritances are not included in assets a spouse can claim. | 100ogg4 | According2What | 1,672,599,932 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "According2What", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "aut... | [
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5 | When my FIL passed away, my parents reaction was 'how can we help?' They were there for the funeral, helping to clear the house, strip wall paper. Not 'lets go for a slap up meal and spend this cash!!' Sound like OP has got hooked up with the wrong kind of family.
Personally I'd use the inheritance for a chance of a l... | 100ogg4 | Active-Pen-412 | 1,672,596,276 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Active-Pen-412", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "aut... | [
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6 | Pretty much. “They relied on my to pay for everything” - the audacity of the husband to actually use this statement to DEFEND his family. Yes, they relied on her - without advance notice. Sounds like that needs to be placed in the file titled “their problem”.
NTA. | 100ogg4 | AffectionateGolf6032 | 1,672,604,960 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateGolf6032", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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7 | There is only one scenario where on has “the right” to expect another to pay: the other person says “it’s on me” beforehand. | 100ogg4 | AffectionateGolf6032 | 1,672,605,108 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateGolf6032", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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10 | NTA. Figure out some clear boundaries, probably with the help of a lawyer. | 100ogg4 | AlarmingAttention151 | 1,672,596,354 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AlarmingAttention151", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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11 | Same, I'm always rolling my eyes whenever people suggest divorce on these subs but in this case, what OP has said about her husband's comments and actions makes me think he doesn't actually care about OP or respects her as much.
I will be cautious about this relationship tbh | 100ogg4 | AllthisSandInMyCrack | 1,672,612,763 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AllthisSandInMyCrack", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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12 | Many are stuck | 100ogg4 | Ammonia13 | 1,672,632,418 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Ammonia13", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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13 | NTA This is your inheritance and you have every right to take a breath before you decide what to do with it. Your in-laws are entitled wank weasels. | 100ogg4 | Any-Strawberry-9395 | 1,672,596,050 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Any-Strawberry-9395", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ab8c0e", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": ... | [
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14 | NTA
OP might wanna look at their financial situation and speak with a lawyer and the bank to protect her money. IL might try to persuade husband to take a part of it. | 100ogg4 | Any_South5377 | 1,672,596,822 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Any_South5377", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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15 | The parenting subreddits are the same quality source of outrage. Usually it’s: “I am overwhelmed, husband plays video games all the time “ | 100ogg4 | Appeltaart232 | 1,672,643,718 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Appeltaart232", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1... | [
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16 | If he didn’t learn to do laundry pre-baby he ain’t going to miraculously start doing laundry post-baby. You need a partner not a grown ass child to look after. Love is blind, deaf and stupid. | 100ogg4 | Appeltaart232 | 1,672,646,441 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Appeltaart232", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1... | [
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17 | I have no idea what country OP is from, but in most--if not all--Western countries, this is her separate property, and the husband is not going to be awarded it--or any part of the inheritance--in a divorce, under any circumstances. Keeping it a separate account--which the husband cannot access--is likely sufficient p... | 100ogg4 | Apprehensive_Ad_5246 | 1,672,595,061 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Apprehensive_Ad_5246", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id":... | [
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18 | She said he's made countless suggestions on how she should spend it. No reason to think that wasn't on an additional property. | 100ogg4 | Apprehensive_Bake_78 | 1,672,602,300 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Apprehensive_Bake_78", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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19 | NTA. But how shocking people true faces start showing when their close one inherit money. | 100ogg4 | Apprehensive_Cut8483 | 1,672,597,067 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Apprehensive_Cut8483", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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20 | I've lost 3 out of 4(Mom, Dad , Step Father) in the last 10 years.
I would give anything to have them back. | 100ogg4 | Appropriate_Fish_451 | 1,672,606,791 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Appropriate_Fish_451", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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21 | This is exactly my thought. So sorry for your loss OP | 100ogg4 | Awkward_Energy590 | 1,672,598,535 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Awkward_Energy590", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0... | [
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22 | Won't stop them from trying to get it. Still better to take whatever precautionary measures possible. | 100ogg4 | AyepuOnyu | 1,672,613,349 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AyepuOnyu", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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23 | > It seems like they didn't help OP whilst her mother was sick, but now they want to spend her mum's money.
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Hmm... I wonder if those two are connected. | 100ogg4 | Barbed_Dildo | 1,672,601,457 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Barbed_Dildo", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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24 | NTA. When my Mom passed at an obscenely early age from cancer (she was 68, I was 28) the condo we had bought about six months earlier became mine. She also left me a considerable amount of cash. I know in my heart my mom was comforted knowing she didn't have to worry about what would happen to me when she was gone.
On... | 100ogg4 | Bellefior | 1,672,600,530 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Bellefior", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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25 | Honestly separate from this my wife make a very large amount of money compared to me but if it comes down to something I want to be generous about I pay. It comes from me. I don’t expect another person to fund me or my intentions. If I want to be generous well then I pay. I don’t make it her problem. I just see it as b... | 100ogg4 | Big-Piccolo-3943 | 1,672,625,206 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Big-Piccolo-3943", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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26 | Husband sounds like a total mooch, which isn’t surprising given his family. NTA and protect your inheritance at all costs. Also I am very sorry for your loss. | 100ogg4 | Big_Solution_1065 | 1,672,601,609 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Big_Solution_1065", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0... | [
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27 | That’s heartbreaking. I’m sorry for your loss. | 100ogg4 | Big_Solution_1065 | 1,672,601,648 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Big_Solution_1065", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0... | [
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28 | This is genius. Say prenup or divorce. Show his true motivation for this marriage. | 100ogg4 | Bitter_Detective_952 | 1,672,596,234 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Bitter_Detective_952", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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30 | Ask him where he wants to celebrate when his mom dies. These idiots rarely actually think it through with empathy for others and when it happens to them are all surprised picka that it hurts like hell to lose someone.
(And yes, I think it is on all of us to ask our asshole friends how they would think if it happened ... | 100ogg4 | BrookeBaranoff | 1,672,601,861 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "BrookeBaranoff", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "aut... | [
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31 | Oh, it gets better. It seems like they didn't help OP whilst her mother was sick, but now they want to spend her mum's money.
OP needs to get a lawyer, check her financial status, then get a divorce lawyer and run for the hills from these grasping ghouls. Her husband and his family clearly want to get their sticky paw... | 100ogg4 | Buttered_Crumpet09 | 1,672,600,567 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Buttered_Crumpet09", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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32 | I'm boggled by the audacity because if they had helped they still wouldn't be owed anything, but you could at least see some (twisted) logic. But they did nothing and now they want cash for...reasons?
The husband should be embarrassed and ashamed not because OP walked out, but because he and his family and picking at ... | 100ogg4 | Buttered_Crumpet09 | 1,672,601,639 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Buttered_Crumpet09", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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33 | It sounds like he's also trying to rationalise his current behaviour. It's not that he and his family are being a grasping leeches, it's that OP is being unfair and punishing them for not helping her. Why else wouldn't she share the money? After all, it's not wrong to ask, right? That's his thought process, I think. He... | 100ogg4 | Buttered_Crumpet09 | 1,672,608,709 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Buttered_Crumpet09", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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34 | They're going to get worse and nastier, and OP needs to run before they decide to just start stealing or taking out credit in her name etc. | 100ogg4 | Buttered_Crumpet09 | 1,672,608,756 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Buttered_Crumpet09", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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35 | It's just so disgraceful. I worry what they were up to that kept the husband out until 3AM. Were the family game planning what to do next?
They're gleeful and they somehow think the money is theirs. The husband is bad enough, but why on earth do the rest of his family think they get something?
I wonder what the hus... | 100ogg4 | Buttered_Crumpet09 | 1,672,608,941 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Buttered_Crumpet09", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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36 | Absolutely. Money shows everyone for who they are, and the husband and his family are a bunch of snapping vultures.
Honestly, as awful as this is for OP, and I feel so terrible for her, but at least they're showing this early on. It would be worse if they took the softly-softly, insidious approach, because this is re... | 100ogg4 | Buttered_Crumpet09 | 1,672,609,725 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Buttered_Crumpet09", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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39 | OP's husband sees her as a literal meal ticket | 100ogg4 | Cannaewulnaewidnae | 1,672,595,543 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Cannaewulnaewidnae", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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40 | So to speak. | 100ogg4 | Cannibal-74 | 1,672,654,886 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Cannibal-74", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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41 | Not the ass at all!!!!! Divorce him!! | 100ogg4 | Capital_Instance_646 | 1,672,595,394 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Capital_Instance_646", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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42 | NTA. It's funny how people want to spend others money, in this case it's your husband and in-laws who are flat out AH's for wanting to do so. Yes, this is intentional on both parties. Your in-laws first joked about your "inheritance pocket" and then tried to pass it off as you being gracious enough to pay. This ind... | 100ogg4 | CapsFan1066 | 1,672,595,065 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CapsFan1066", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac96ddc... | [
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43 | My friend had the exact thing happen to her. The inheritance is what got her out of her awful marriage. One last gift from her mom. | 100ogg4 | Celestial-Salamander | 1,672,610,840 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Celestial-Salamander", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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44 | Foul people aren't they? | 100ogg4 | Charlottewhit | 1,672,600,082 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Charlottewhit", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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45 | I would definitely go to a tavern in hades that sounds delightful compared to her husband and in laws. | 100ogg4 | Chemist-Mama | 1,672,627,106 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Chemist-Mama", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "autho... | [
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46 | The best advice because let me tell you a little secret…It will never stop until that money has vanished. | 100ogg4 | CherryBlaster | 1,672,609,577 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CherryBlaster", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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47 | This NTA, I’d tell your husband you’d much rather your mother around than the money but him and his family trying to blind side you into spending it on them is disgusting. That you plan on taking your time to decide what you want to do with that money and don’t want anything like this to occur again. | 100ogg4 | Christinemfm_84 | 1,672,598,380 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Christinemfm_84", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "au... | [
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48 | > I'm more sad when I see that how low the bar is for most women here
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Exactly. I've been on reddit for years, but not this particular subreddit, and become more and more disheartened at the stories of bullying/gaslighting and downright abuse of women. | 100ogg4 | Cilicious | 1,672,613,393 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Cilicious", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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49 | NTA. How disgusting. Your mother passes away and their first order of action is to circle your inheritance like vultures. Anyone who cared about you would not bring this up or make demands/expectations. Heck, true friends/family would take you out for dinner and try to cheer you up considering everything. I'm sorry for... | 100ogg4 | ClawedRavenesque | 1,672,596,963 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ClawedRavenesque", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "a... | [
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50 | Amen to that. From a grieving person who inherited some money. | 100ogg4 | Cleanslate2 | 1,672,604,077 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Cleanslate2", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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54 | Hey make sure you DONT mix any of this money with your joint account/hubby. If you divorce, it’s less messy and your hubby can’t make a claim to it | 100ogg4 | CommunicationTop7259 | 1,672,600,426 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CommunicationTop7259", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id":... | [
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55 | NTA, husband and his family are entitled AH. You lost your mum and are probably still processing your feelings and they have no empathy and have the audacity to ask you pay!?
Divorce him and don’t let the next man know about the inheritance. | 100ogg4 | Crazy-Jackfruit4311 | 1,672,596,470 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Crazy-Jackfruit4311", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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56 | NTA
It’s not *their* money, they don’t get a say in how you chose to spend it.
Your husband should be embarrassed that his family are entitled freeloaders. | 100ogg4 | CrystalQueen3000 | 1,672,594,422 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CrystalQueen3000", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#bc5c00", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "a6... | [
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57 | NTA. Your husband and his family is shameless. | 100ogg4 | CuddlyCutieStarfish | 1,672,596,343 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CuddlyCutieStarfish", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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58 | Ask him when he asked you to pay for dinner OP. Because he didn’t. Ask him why his family thought you would pay for dinner, OP. Because I expect it’s because he told them that without consulting you. Ask him how it is ethical for him to commit to using your inheritance money for absolutely anything without asking you ... | 100ogg4 | Curious-One4595 | 1,672,607,404 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Curious-One4595", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ffd700", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d0f... | [
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59 | This right here. What better way to honor the money your mom left for you than to get out of a loveless marriage. | 100ogg4 | CuriousPenguinSocks | 1,672,600,205 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "CuriousPenguinSocks", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": ... | [
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60 | Maybe we can soon congratulate for the loss of her husband. | 100ogg4 | Curly_Shoe | 1,672,596,879 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Curly_Shoe", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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61 | It. Didn't cross my mind that it could be interpreted that way. But yes, violence is not the answer! | 100ogg4 | Curly_Shoe | 1,672,607,248 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Curly_Shoe", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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62 | > Gonna be hard for OPs husband to prove he's not just a gold digger.
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It's not exactly gold-digging; it's arguably worse. This more points to OP's husband being threatened by her having her own money, so he wants to spend it ASAP - ideally on him - so he can exert financial control over OP. OP sa... | 100ogg4 | Cyclonitron | 1,672,619,567 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Cyclonitron", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4... | [
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63 | NTA - This money is tied to grief, you lost someone important to you. I lost my own mother, recently so I want to say I'm sorry for your loss. The way you chose to process through this grief and the inheritance is your choice and your choice alone. I agree with others who have said get a lawyer and financial consultant... | 100ogg4 | Dantzijean | 1,672,595,023 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Dantzijean", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a... | [
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64 | I was given 2 great pieces of advice that i still go by today. 1) Always be prepared to pay for your meal, no matter the circumstances. There's always the possibility of something going wrong. 2) Order as you would if you were paying for yourself. Even though, especially with business focused means, that people will te... | 100ogg4 | Dawg_in_NWA | 1,672,608,411 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Dawg_in_NWA", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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65 | NTA! Make sure you secure your inheritance so the jackass and his family can’t get to it.
They couldn’t help when your mom was sick but they are perfectly fine spending the money she left you? F that noise!
Does your husband have any redeeming qualities? Cause he just offered up YOUR money to treat his circus of idi... | 100ogg4 | DelightedLurker | 1,672,594,839 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "DelightedLurker", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac9... | [
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66 | Women are taught to fear living alone, that the world is something to fear and not HOW to live independently, defend themselves, or to value themselves. OP is worth far more than this inheritance, but if the money makes her realize her worth, then it’s priceless. Divorce him, sister. He’s not worthy of you. | 100ogg4 | Denim_Diva1969 | 1,672,623,195 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Denim_Diva1969", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "aut... | [
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67 | You know what my husband wants to do with my inheritance when I unfortunately get it in a few years? Pay off a few mutual debts of ours to make our quality of life better, set up a university/college fund for our soon-to-be daughter, and stash away the rest. Maybe we will look into investing a bit.
My husband 100% agr... | 100ogg4 | DibsArchaeo | 1,672,619,884 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "DibsArchaeo", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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68 | but would the additional property be in her name alone or both??? that's the 64000 question, isn't it? Her inheritance is hers, it's not his. A loving spouse would help her grieve and respect her inheritance as being hers, not immediately jump in with "suggestions" as to how to spend it. Notice OP said "spend" not ... | 100ogg4 | Direct_Gas470 | 1,672,619,535 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Direct_Gas470", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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69 | As it should. Cheating spouse should get nothing. | 100ogg4 | DisastrousOne3950 | 1,672,623,043 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "DisastrousOne3950", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "... | [
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70 | It's disgusting, appalling, entitled behaviour.
Good on OP for having the presence of mind to get up and walk out.
Her spouse and in-laws are acting like they all won the lottery.
I'm so sorry about your mum, OP. From your comment below, I think you're giving thought to if you want to stay in the marriage. Make su... | 100ogg4 | DoYouHaveAnyIdea16 | 1,672,601,929 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "DoYouHaveAnyIdea16", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "... | [
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71 | NTA. Sounds like you inherited some money and now everyone feels entitled to it. Time to get a lawyer. | 100ogg4 | Dodginglandmines | 1,672,594,673 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Dodginglandmines", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... | [
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72 | NTA and I'm not sure what you could have done differently. Your husband's family was very rude and entitled.
I do think it may be wise to have a sit down with your husband and explain that until you know what you're planning to do with the money to pretend it doesn't exist. If he can't accept that you may have more is... | 100ogg4 | DoraTheUrbanExplorer | 1,672,594,489 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "DoraTheUrbanExplorer", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#e3be04", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id":... | [
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73 | Nta your husband is a gold digger | 100ogg4 | Downtown-Main-3590 | 1,672,595,598 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Downtown-Main-3590", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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74 | Post nub!
NTA he’s awful and tbh i hope you leave him | 100ogg4 | Due-Science-9528 | 1,672,596,689 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Due-Science-9528", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f... | [
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75 | Just remember to keep the divorce money in a separate account and to never mix it with any joint funds because otherwise it will a become marital asset. | 100ogg4 | DutyValuable | 1,672,605,325 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "DutyValuable", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b... | [
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76 | NTA. Your husband is treating you awfully much like a bag of money. | 100ogg4 | Eetah | 1,672,597,409 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Eetah", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair... | [
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77 | My thoughts exactly. He also strikes me as the sort of person who would secretly try to get her pregnant on purpose to keep her around, as horrible as that sounds. Especially as OP seems perfectly capable of standing up for herself. | 100ogg4 | Electronic-Half-4298 | 1,672,971,666 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Electronic-Half-4298", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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78 | NTA. But please see a lawyer asap. After this trick your husband is likely to divorce you to go after your inheritance; make sure your affairs are legally airtight so he can't touch it. | 100ogg4 | ElectronicRub1716 | 1,672,594,619 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ElectronicRub1716", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#ab8c0e", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "f... | [
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82 | When you get to the point that you're posting online about your SO's bad behavior and asking strangers for help, divorce is often a likely or inevitable outcome.
If your husband does something this terrible, what are the odds he's a loving, kind and caring husband in every other way.
I'm actually shocked the other wa... | 100ogg4 | ErikLovemonger | 1,672,618,518 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ErikLovemonger", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d... | [
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83 | The problem comes in when husband wants OP to start purchasing things that then becomes their communal property. Just be mindful and careful OP | 100ogg4 | Expensive-Block-6034 | 1,672,600,306 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Expensive-Block-6034", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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85 | Nta. Its your inheritance and they are not owed anything. The entitlement is baffling. | 100ogg4 | FallynAngyl | 1,672,595,479 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "FallynAngyl", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c2... | [
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86 | Excellent post.
The entitlement of people is f*cking incredible.
OP needs to know that the second that inheritance money goes to husband or marital property he will get half. | 100ogg4 | Fearless85 | 1,672,597,700 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Fearless85", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a... | [
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87 | Nta. Better keep those funds separate or they will magically disappear!! | 100ogg4 | Few-Afternoon-6276 | 1,672,596,897 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Few-Afternoon-6276", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, ... | [
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88 | I'd divorce him since in many places inheritances are not considered marital assets as long as they're not comingled; she did the right thing by keeping her $$ separated. Husband & his family are greedy little leprechaun AHs that are after her pot of gold. | 100ogg4 | Few-Entrepreneur383 | 1,672,600,012 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Few-Entrepreneur383", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#8f7312", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": ... | [
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89 | When someone tells you who they are, believe them.
> yeling at me saying I was pathetic to get up and walk out on him and his family
[...quoted text...]
> He said I humiliated him and family
[...quoted text...]
Fuck that guy. | 100ogg4 | FormerGameDev | 1,672,628,951 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "FormerGameDev", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "auth... | [
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90 | NTA I’d rather have my mother than money. if they can’t or won’t understand that you are grieving, that is not your issue - it’s all them and they have shown their true values. | 100ogg4 | Fraethere | 1,672,596,480 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Fraethere", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_f... | [
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91 | NTA. The fact your own husband was upset that you didn’t pay for his family is disgusting. “He said I humiliated him and family and that what I did was an attempt to get back at them for not being able to help mom when she was sick.” There are so many red flags here and I think you made the right call in only paying fo... | 100ogg4 | Girl_With_No_Hope | 1,672,595,659 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Girl_With_No_Hope", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "... | [
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93 | NTA.
Your husband and in-laws are attempting to capitalize on your *mother’s death*.
Keep the inheritance. Ditch the people who think you’re a walking ATM. | 100ogg4 | Glitter_Voldemort | 1,672,595,243 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Glitter_Voldemort", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#8f7312", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d... | [
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94 | Unfortunately, inheritances tend to show us who people really are. Some people value the possibility of what that money can do for them more than they value the loss of life or their partner’s grief.
In other words, some people just suck. | 100ogg4 | Glitter_Voldemort | 1,672,602,120 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Glitter_Voldemort", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#8f7312", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "d... | [
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95 | You wouldn't believe how people act. When my buddies dad died and left him 10 million, one of his friends... at the funeral told him "Dude you are set for life now bro."
We bring this up and he tells me - "Yeah like that's what I cared about. Like I wouldn't give that up to have my dad back." People are who they are a... | 100ogg4 | GunBrothersGaming | 1,672,602,268 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "GunBrothersGaming", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "... | [
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96 | Then your mom may have left you a final gift.. the freedom to walk away from a mariage that isn’t working for you. I’m so sorry for your loss. | 100ogg4 | Haunting-Aardvark709 | 1,672,598,954 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Haunting-Aardvark709", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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97 | Going to second what other people are saying here.
You need to leave. You have a cushion that will allow you to walk away from this.
Please, PLEASE. Take care of yourself. Know that what your husband is doing isn't normal, and it *isn't okay*. You deserve better. | 100ogg4 | Hazel2468 | 1,672,601,588 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Hazel2468", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#735a17", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "aa1c7c24-... | [
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98 | My late father's sister (refuse to call her my aunt) and her no-good husband are like vultures. Someone dies and they're asking about what they get, I didn't even have the funeral arrangements started for my dad when they were asking about getting his vehicle.
Yes, you read that right, my dad had been dead less than ... | 100ogg4 | Historical_Gur_3054 | 1,672,613,554 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Historical_Gur_3054", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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99 | A financial windfall and/or death will show peoples true colors. | 100ogg4 | Historical_Gur_3054 | 1,672,629,219 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Historical_Gur_3054", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null,... | [
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100 | Yeah, you should really look into making sure the money is airtight, from all of them, but especially your husband. It sounds like him and his family may be a step away from trying to hide it at his mom’s house for “safe keeping”. | 100ogg4 | Horror_Cucumber_3497 | 1,672,604,455 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Horror_Cucumber_3497", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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101 | Yeah, the level of self disrespect women seem to have when they settle for shitheads like this.
And if you say something, it's "oh, he's not always like this, well he told me he was an asshole, but never was to me untill this time, or but I should be the bigger person", etc, etc.
Honestly it's kinda pathetic.*
* Yes... | 100ogg4 | Icy-Establishment298 | 1,672,640,069 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Icy-Establishment298", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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102 | You're very obviously NTA.
>He got back at 3 a.m yeling at me saying I was pathetic to get up and walk out on him and his family after they *relied* on me to pay for their food and thougt I was gracious enough to do it BUT they were wrong.
[...quoted text...]
Your in-laws were outrageously rude and entitled by expect... | 100ogg4 | ImStealingTheTowels | 1,672,597,369 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "ImStealingTheTowels", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": ... | [
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103 | NTA
Your husband and his family feels entitled to your inheritance. If I were you I would start thinking about the type of family you married into. I can definitely see their treatment of you getting worse in hopes of getting money. | 100ogg4 | Impossible-Peach-985 | 1,672,595,496 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Impossible-Peach-985", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null... | [
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104 | Honestly, I'm worried about that mariage as well. This is not someone I would want to share the rest of my life with. What will come next!?? I'd want nothing to do with the rest of the family either. | 100ogg4 | IndividualRoyal9426 | 1,672,605,651 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "IndividualRoyal9426", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": ... | [
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107 | NTA
It's your money that you inherited? He has no say on how you spend it, especially considering that it is in a seperate account. | 100ogg4 | Joshua_Oberlyn | 1,672,594,600 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Joshua_Oberlyn", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "aut... | [
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109 | NTA whatsoever, and the joke about paying from the “inheritance pocket” is absolutely galling. I’m so sorry for your loss, and you handled that with much more grace than I ever could have. | 100ogg4 | Katcanwrite | 1,672,597,176 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Katcanwrite", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author... | [
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112 | They act like you won the lottery and not buried your mother. I'm sorry for your loss. | 100ogg4 | Kmia55 | 1,672,595,164 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Kmia55", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a... | [
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114 | NTA | 100ogg4 | Lani_567 | 1,672,596,022 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Lani_567", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_fl... | [
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115 | Yes the bait of ‘could have helped with her illness’ is throwing me for a loop | 100ogg4 | Laugh_or_go_mad | 1,672,624,399 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Laugh_or_go_mad", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "au... | [
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116 | NTA separate all finances now. I personally would leave as it seems like he views you as a piggy bank. | 100ogg4 | LavishnessNo3139 | 1,672,597,225 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "LavishnessNo3139", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#57411c", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "ac... | [
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117 | Inheritance is free from marital asset status s long as she doesn’t mingle the money with marital assets. She could get a postnup before she does anything close to mingling the assets or it stays separate forever | 100ogg4 | Lazyoat | 1,672,607,827 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Lazyoat", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8... | [
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118 | I'm more sad when I see that how low the bar is for most women here.
It blows my mind. | 100ogg4 | Leonetta85 | 1,672,607,387 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Leonetta85", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_... | [
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